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On having a mission – 8 months on

17 Jun

8 months ago I wrote about having a mission for my life. I wanted it to encompass “contribution”, “global”, “sustainability” and “poverty”. I didn’t know what this meant or how it was going to work.

I met a woman who was 67 who was working on a vocational training centre in the far west of Ghana. I realised that in around 40 years time I would be 67. So I decided to make my mission 40 years – to have it focus on the long term. As Bill Gates famously put it – we overestimate what we can do in 2 years and underestimate what we can do in 10 (or 40 for that matter).

I wanted my first step to be to begin to understand. To begin to understand what it means to be poor. To begin to understand what has been done so far. To begin to understand why this has not been enough. As part of this I wanted to give a substantial sum ($10K) to charity.

It is hard to say how I have progressed on the true knowledge front; and yet easy to show how I have progressed on the money side. This reminds me of a conversation I had recently with a development practitioner  – “people in aid complain all the time about the report writing – but how else can we show our progress? It is not as easy as showing money in an account. If a business is successful the money will be there. If it isn’t, it won’t be.”

So first to the money. In the end I was more creative with accounting for the $10K than I originally thought I would be. I found it hard to part with my own money, but my goal meant that I stopped thinking about whether or not I should give away away the money and started thinking creatively about how I could overcome my own barriers and make it happen. I first managed to turn a relatively small donation into a significant amount through a very generous matching scheme I was able to access. After much deliberation I also decided to include my expenses for my India trip last year, where we initiated a pilot project, bringing light to one community. For the remainder of the sum I asked that all my Christmas and birthday presents from the last year be donations to a charity (as pre-selected by GiveWell).

On beginning to understand, I have certainly learnt a lot during the past year in my role with Good Return. For the next period of time however, I would like to be more focussed in my learning, spending more time reading and trying to understand concepts which are well researched and difficult rather than the easy one line answers (read this Study Hacks post on deliberate practice versus achieving flow if you want to understand more about what I am talking about).

Some key learnings I have written about previously on L+L have been:

A Year in Review

15 Jan

It was a huge 2011 –

  • 5 different jobs across 4 continents and 7 countries (with telecommuting from another 2).
  • A career change from sustainable buildings into microfinance / small scale renewable energy
  • 95 blog articles (thanks for reading!) and a heap more articles published at Good Return and the Fifth Estate.

I learnt some big things –

  • Together, we can make sh*t happen. Everything around us was created by people just like us. So let’s do it.
  • Becoming an artist doesn’t just mean learning how to paint.
  • Have a mission. As Seth Godin so aptly puts it – plans are great, you need plans. But plans fail. (And if you suffer from a chronic illness, it’s important to know that a mission will outlast any plan which you may have had to put to one side – with a big thank you to a certain someone on this one.)

I learnt some interesting life skills –

  • Meditation works.
  • If you spend long enough in a place, people will occasionally start mistaking you for one of their own. And occasionally, you’ll mistake yourself for one of them.
  • Envy of any kind is pretty stupid. People always feel envy for people who are just above them, who manage to attain things just out of reach. But there will always be people much better off and much worse off than you. And if you are reading this, your lot in just about everything is pretty good.

I learnt there are some things which I would like to get better at –

  • Like eating more frequently (every few hours),
  • Reading a book every week or two, and
  • Listening more. This includes interrupting less – even those interruptions which are just in my mind. As Jacqueline Novogratz says: be interested, not interesting.

And I’ve thought about some of the big things I want to work towards over the coming year.

Perhaps most of all, I learnt I have many people to say thank you to –

  • To all the organisations I’ve had the opportunity to work with this year – in particular Good Return,
  • To those that have taken the time to tell me their story – through what can best be described as a “year of interviews”. I can’t thank the countless people that have given me their time enough – from Australia to Ghana, from managing directors to women taking out $500 yearly loans, from 3 year olds to 93 year olds,
  • To those that have taken the time to listen. Even though I don’t really get lonely, life on the road can sometimes be very exciting / miserable and in those moments there’s nothing like some who is willing to really listen while you are very excited / rant on. From those that listen often, right down to those that might have just listened once (like the Indonesian grandmother who I met in KL airport who smiled a lot when I talked and gave me a mint) – Thank you.

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<3 Links, quotes and comments of the week

14 Dec

Yep, that's Brad Pitt

  • GiveWell.org has announced their top reviewed charities in time for Christmas. These guys are very detailed (obsessive) in the way they review charities – their blog makes for interesting reading. They even keep a running list of mistakes they’ve made on their front page. Interesting GiveDirectly which gives cash grants directly to households in Kenya made their top charities list, as did a microfinance organisation. This is interesting because GiveWell had previously stated they were highly uncertain of microfinance as a concept. Pratham which my cousin’s charity partners with in India also made the list.
  • As part of my 40 year mission I’ve been thinking about how people make the decision to give to charity. Sascha Dichter posted some interesting thoughts this week: “…simply giving people information about a charity’s overhead costs makes them less likely to donate to it. This held true, remarkably, even if the information was positive and indicated and the charity was extremely efficient.” He suggests that this is because generosity and analytics are not linked – once we start thinking about HOW we’re going to spend our money – nothing is ever good enough, impactful enough, scalable enough, anything enough”. He suggests overcoming our analytical minds by committing to donate a particular amount each year. Then we can get as analytical about how we spend that money as we like.
  • And from an expats evening in Iloilo City: “Why would you try and move a woman to Iloilo? It’s like taking coal to a coal mine” and “Coming to Iloilo is like turning into a kind of Brad Pitt -  a Brad Pitt who has $100 bills falling out of his pockets”. To put things in context, I was apparently the first female expat to ever turn up on her own. It’s certainly a colourful city!

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On my birthday and the Thanksgiving Challenge

20 Nov

As part of this whole having a 40 year mission thing, I’ve been interested in what it means to actually give.

Part of what started me thinking about this was Sascha Dichter’s generosity experiment, where he decided to say YES to everyone for a set period of time. He decided on a month – and ended up with some great insights. Including how Seth Godin hilariously asked him for money, knowing that Sascha couldn’t say no.

Sascha took this experiment and turned it into “Generosity Day” – which happened for the first time on Valentine’s Day of this year. People were asked to say “YES to everything that is asked of you, all day long”. And knowing that Generosity Day is a very personal thing, and very difficult to “talk about it without having experienced it”, Sascha has announced a warm up to Generosity Day 2012 – the Thanksgiving Challenge.

Try it next week, for the week or just for one day.  Consider it your Generosity Day Dry Run, so that you can speak with gusto and authenticity when the big day arrives.

So what am I going to do?

I’m going to use my birthday on Thursday (LOVE birthdays!) to say YES to absolutely everyone that asks. And for the rest of this week I’m going to say YES to the first price offered by every local driver here in the Philippines.

(More of a relief than anything else, I assure you!)

In addition, my family have been asking what they can give me. It’s trickier for them than normal this year – they’re in Australia, I’m in the Philippines and my kindle is in Cambodia (long story).

Perfect I thought. This year I’m going to pick a charity for my Birthday AND Christmas presents.

And so which charity?

I spent some time looking around Give Well’s page – these guys are obsessed with finding top quality charities – but noted that they are just about to release new recommendations for the year.

And I also realise that part of the purpose of Generosity Day is not just about rationale – it’s also about emotion.

I have always been deeply affected by human trafficking – not least since reading the beautiful but terrifying Sold by Patricia McCormick and spending time with World Education and other friends who work with trafficked women in Nepal.

And then this from the NY Times grabbed me this morning. The personal sacrifice astounds and inspires me. (Update: an even better article is here)

This year, I’m asking my family to donate to the Somaly Mam Foundation – I’m also going to try and visit them when I travel to Cambodia in a month’s time.

(And as my gift back to my family – YES, here is a tax deductible alternative, should that be how they choose to give).

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As a side note – words which echo my sentiment on on why a mission is better than a plan

So, what exactly is it that you are doing in India?

6 Nov

Um, so India has been a bit of a side trip.

Not that this whole year hasn’t been a bit of a side trip, but this was an unexpected side trip.

It all started with this 40 year mission thing I’ve been talking about.

Actually it really all started on Christmas Day of this year, when my father introduced me to my distant cousin Clary and his charity, the 40k foundation.

(Totally unrelated to the 40 year thing, but I must admit it is all turning into quite a nice little story arc).

So then Clary introduced me to the brilliant Jamie, who then became my great friend, who then technically reintroduced me to Clary.

I wrote to Jamie asking him what he thought I should do with my $10K.

“Why not try to bring electricity to the community Clary is working with in India?”

“Yes, why not?” a voice in my head thought. “I could have a go at least. It is what I’ve been trying to do all year.”

And then I said it out loud.

I’d negotiated 2 months off from my position with Good Return to spend time in San Francisco undertaking the sorts of activities that a normal person of my age would be undertaking whilst on holiday.

(Surfing, kayaking, attending a wedding, picking up a boyfriend, you know, all that).

But then some logistical issues involving the wet season in Nepal and some super advanced engineering courses meant my 2 months was going to be cut down to 5 weeks. Which meant I had three weeks left to not be in San Francisco.

And so here I am.

I must admit I’m still really trying to figure out what it is that I’m doing here.

I’ve been lost in more places in Banglaore than I’ve been found. I’ve ripped my pants wide open. Walked into a glass door so hard it gave me a lump for a week. Broke my kindle. Picked up traveller’s diarrhea. Beaten myself up over feeling bad about any of this considering how easy my life is, really.

And been lonely as all hell. (Not so silent thank you to the ever relevant Rumi.)

All I can do is hope that all this is even vaguely worthwhile for a small community I’ve seen, no more than an hour from the Times Square-esque road I sit on now.

One with no rights to land on which they live. No electricity. No running water in their houses. No toilets.

And huge laughs as they watched me feebly use their hammer to manually break granite, as they do, in their quarry.

On having a mission – Part 2 (and on taking the first step)

10 Oct

Last week I posted on having a mission.

OK, so actually I posted on what the mission would be like. And how long it can take.

And how I wanted my first step to be about understanding.

1.       What does it actually mean to be poor?

I am struggling with the concept of purchasing power parity and poverty lines. And what the term “less than $2 per day” actually means.

So you wake up in the morning. You can only buy or grow food equivalent to the amount of food that you could buy for US$2 in the United States.

What does this mean for your day? What does this mean for your children? Your health? Your house?

I have been told that someone like me can never understand. Perhaps this is true. But poverty is also in my blood, in my family’s story-telling and heritage. Both sets of grandparents were exceptionally poor as children.

And besides, how can you even begin to fathom what is going on if you are not prepared to listen?

2.       What has been done about poverty so far?

I’ve been reading for a little while.

A couple of favourites – The Blue Sweater (Thanks Jo and At!). More than Good Intentions. And I just finished Mountains Beyond Mountains, recommended to me by the brilliant Alex and Josh.

Amazing, amazing, amazing.

I want to learn and see more.

3.       Why is it that people are still living in poverty?

Of course part of the answer to this question lies with the poor. Perhaps I will get some answers out of part (1).

But part of the answer also lies with those who are not.

I also just finished “The Life You Can Save” by Peter Singer. In essence he makes a very strong argument that it is unethical to not help the poor with just about everything you have.

And now.

Just on giving, some inspiration:

  • I have a friend (who doesn’t like his name) who gives 10% of his income every year to charity. (Post-tax I was told to tell anyone who asked). When asked by his girlfriend if he would stop giving money once they had a mortgage, he said something along the lines of this: “I don’t think poor people would care that I had a mortgage”.
  • Sasha Dichter’s generosity experiment – he said yes to anyone that asked him for money for a month.
  • The 50% League – to qualify members must have given away at least half their wealth, or for the past three years, half their income.

I want to understand why these are special cases, why it is that we do not give more.

I have spent a long time studying a very well off first world person who cared but was ambivalent about giving.

(For those of you playing at home, that would be me).

Now I want to study what it means to give.

4.       What I should do next

This is going to take a little time.

Would it be better to go back to well paid work and give away most of my salary?

Maybe it will be best to forget the mission and just not ever fly again? I could give the money away AND reduce the most significant part of my global carbon footprint.

And just on that, how is the environment and flexitarianism going to fit into all of this?

The plan, so far at least

On what it means to be poor, I’ll be travelling across the Asia Pacific for the next year with Good Return surveying microfinance clients for our renewable energy product. In the Philippines that means taking out a 6 month loan for a AUD$40 solar panel and LED light.

On what has been done so far, I’m going to read more (book suggestions very, very welcome).

And on why it is that people are still living in poverty, I am going to start to learn what it means to give. I’m still hashing this out, but I’m thinking over the next 12 months I am going to:

  • Spend some time saying yes – Sasha Dichter style. (Here is one right now – “Yes”).
  • Give away a substantial sum to charities which work with poor communities.

I am definitely going to need help on the last one – more on this and how I came up with the figure next week.

And on what to do next?

Hah! I’m still taking it day-by-day.

–> You can now also read Part 1 and Part 3

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