Archive | February, 2011

A few notes on posting.

28 Feb

A few people have been telling me that they have been checking in almost every day to see if there are new posts.

Firstly, might I say this.

Secondly, the plan is to put up articles on Mondays and three-reasons-to-love posts on Thursday.

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Why I love Q&A (or, the value of Audience Participation)

28 Feb

Last year I went with my brother to Q&A – a panel show on the ABC. It was held at the Opera House and they had an outstanding panel from the Festival of Dangerous Ideas (a brilliant event in itself!).

The format of the show involves a panel of speakers, usually spruiking a new book or particular political agenda who form the panel. Audience members send in questions before which are screened as conversation starters. Audience members may also ask spontaneous questions throughout the show, or those at home can play by using the twitter hashtag #qanda.*

I think there are a couple of reasons why this format is successful.

It gives people the opportunity to think

I read up on each of the panellists before the show. I read a little of the pre-prepared material that the ABC sent me and did some of my own research. I came in with a much better understanding of the topics than I would have otherwise. I also thought of questions that I could ask during the show (although I never would have – I’d much rather have kittens!). It made me feel engaged with the topic, and with the show. And it made me question what I thought of the topic – not just what the panellists thought.

I’ve been inspired for a similar reason by “The Update, The Vent and The Noisy” from Rands in Repose (Johanna Rothman makes a similar point here). In essence:

“Business is noisy. Business is full of people worrying loudly about projects, process, and other people. These people have opinions and they share them all over the place — all the time. This collective chatter is part of the daily regimen of a healthy business, but this chatter will bury the individual voice unless someone pays attention.”

If you don’t give people the opportunity to have their say and think about what is going on around them, often they won’t feel that they can.

Audience participation is fun.

The twitter feed has a lot to answer for. The ABC post a running feed of all sorts of tweets at the bottom of the screen – from serious all the way to downright stupid. It always makes me (and often the panel!) laugh about the topic.

When something goes wrong at work, or when someone is not pleased about something that we have done, sometimes I try and introduce audience participation by making a stupid joke of it. This might sound ridiculous, but I’ve noticed two things about this method.

Firstly, I work with overachievers who are pretty hard on themselves anyway. I do not have to tell them to pick up their game. They do not often make mistakes. Helping them laugh at their mistakes makes them realise that it can be good to make mistakes – it helps them learn and get better at their job. More than that, it proves that their job could not be done by a team of highly skilled robots. (Besides, it is often not the mistake that is the issue, everyone makes mistakes. More it is the way that it is handled).

The second thing is that the joke turns the mistake into a story, which gets told. The audience participation stops other people from making the same mistake. And people want to add to the story, because it usually is pretty funny, which makes them think about it differently.

The point being, of course, that everyone loves a good story!

*(I'd link to it, but twitter is down. Just type #qanda into the search bar)

<3 Fin Review Ads

24 Feb

three-reasons-to-love the Fin Review ads:

  1. They are unbelievably simple.
  2. They often come out of nowhere. At random times. The side of the bus. While I am drinking coffee. While I am with friends.
  3. They achieve the rare combination of making me laugh while making me think*
*Almost as difficult as sneezing while keeping your eyes open. Seriously. Try it!

Lessons from a friend (or, the value of story-telling)

22 Feb

One of my friends is a nickname fanatic. Everyone has a nickname. His favourite people have many nicknames, and many deviations of said nicknames.

He is a master story teller, and his stories often get sidetracked by a (sometimes long) tangent into how or why a particular person got the nickname that they got.

Which of course, adds to the overall storytelling.

Stories bring us together.

In my kayaking club we sometimes go away for the weekend and spend the evening around the campfire. Stories are told about adventures of the day and from the club’s long history. It gives new paddlers the opportunity to bond with people in the club, by learning the vernacular of the group they are with (not to mention people’s real names).

We are the stories we tell ourselves. They form our culture.

These stories remind people in the club that they are adventurous individuals. They totally ‘do’ fun. And that tomorrow they will go out and do it all again. And that when they get a nickname, and their own story, they belong.

One of my favourite HBR articles is this one on culture. At one company, there was a famous story about a woman who came home early from her wedding to work. And how if the company wanted their culture to change, they had to stop telling this story.

(Also, fascinatingly, kids surrounded by kids who like vegetables are more likely to like vegetables).

Stories can effectively convey a message.

We can learn a lot more from people who convey their learnings through a story. Two powerful examples in my recent life: the books Banker to the Poor and Eating Animals. (Eating animals is just as inhumane to the individual that had to do the killing as it was to the animal, and microloans are all about providing people with Daniel Pink’s three keys of motivation: Autonomy, Mastery and Purpose).

Put even more simply, it is hard not to reconsider (or even love) a group of people that puts enough thought into coming up with a special name and story, just for you. They are conveying their message of appreciation for you.

And who doesn’t want that.

<3 Rain

19 Feb
Three-reasons-to-love rain:
  1. Anti-social behaviour becomes normal.
  2. The drama. The suspense. And your front row seat is free.
  3. Giant giant puddles for splashing in (see point 1).

The best piece of advice

15 Feb

Speaking to a friend last night about recent dramas in her absolutely inspirational life; I was reminded of one of the best pieces of advice I have received in my professional life:

Do what you think is right.

At the end of the day/year/project/your life(!) the person you will be accountable to is yourself.

Not your boss. Not your family. Just yourself.

<3 Internet Connectivity in my Mauritian home

11 Feb

Three-reasons-to-love Internet Connectivity in my Mauritian home:

1. I have to sit on my balcony to use the internet. I have discovered I can see the sunset from my balcony. And the moon rise. And the ocean.
2. Sometimes it just doesn’t work. And then I get to blame deep sea cable issues for not being connected.
3. But, most of the time, it does work.

On being creative (or, the joy of grevilleas)

7 Feb

Last year I went with my brother and Caitlin to the Carriage Works Farmer’s markets in Sydney.

We had such a great time – what with the realisation that lamb’s rumps are tiny (“it is a lamb after all!”), not to mention the cello and piano accordion duet. And the grevilleas. I cannot get over how stunning these flowers are.

Of course I demonstrated my lack of ability to enjoy anything without overanalysing it. Like which stalls did the best at selling to us. (We bought meat from guy in the farmer’s hat without professional signage. We bought apples from the lady that stood out the front of stall handing them out. And we bought our breakfast from the stall with the celebrity chef.)

But the most interesting thing happened when we came home.

My brother spent about an hour arranging the flowers around the house. He emptied a couple of vases. Set up a triangle of sparkling water bottles on the table. And kept adjusting them and trying new things.

And then I started drawing pictures of them. And tweeting about them. And thinking about how to write about them. I could not stop looking at them.

I’m not creative! But…

Look, I just don’t think of myself as a particularly creative person. I studied engineering. Most of the pictures in my bedrooms are maps. And my brother is an investment banker.

But I have been thinking a lot about Hugh McLeod’s thoughts on creativity (also page 10 here).

Everyone is born creative

Which I guess is part of what is coming out me slowing down and taking some time out to enjoy the flowers. And the afternoon. And the ability to write. In whatever form it comes out.

And why my brother enjoyed not only the flower arranging, but the 3 hours (and counting) process of deciding what to cook with the food he bought.

The hardest part of being creative is getting used to it

I think this is the thought of Hugh that struck me most.

I am not used to thinking about myself in a creative way. Especially because most of my epiphanies sound completely ridiculous (The fear is mostly stupid. OMG PEOPLE! THE FEAR IS MOSTLY STUPID!!!).

I am trying to learn how to turn ridiculous into something useful, and maybe beautiful.

Of course, it doesn’t matter.

Because I was smiling that whole day. And that was the best $12 I’ve spent in a long time.

<3 Long plane trips

6 Feb

My three-reasons-to-love long plane trips:

1. Endless amounts of sleep. Followed by endless amounts of food. Followed by endless amounts of bad television. On repeat.
2. It usually starts some good. And it usually ends somewhere good.
3. It never lasts forever.

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